“All I ever wanted to do was save my kid…but the ‘my’ kept getting larger and larger”
Over the past few days, I’ve been In Savannah, Georgia where I was asked to speak at the National Youth-At-Risk Conference. One of the perks of the trip was sharing some time with fellow speaker Geoffrey Canada, founder of the Harlem Children’s Zone.
In our conversation we immediately connected as he learned of my work developing programs throughout the years for children, fathers and families in NYC.
The conversation shifted to this question…What type of legacy are you living today?
LEGACIES ARE CREATED BY LEADERS!
Ask yourself. What is your legacy right now?
If it was all over today, would you be proud of your legacy?
What would your kids, wife, community, colleagues, friends and families say your legacy is?
And most importantly, what would you say it is?
It starts with your WHY!
My early work with clients always starts with finding out what makes them come alive.
What are you passionate about? What is your WHY?
When you start with your WHY you create your own personal mission statement. This establishes a value system and ideal customer.
The next step is to create a living legacy so you can show up as the best version of yourself, wherever you are. Be the leader you want to become at home, at work and in the community!
Here are 5 Steps to creating a Legacy of Leadership:
- Vision- Know what matters. You can’t create a legacy and hand something down by accident (if so, it is usually a negative one). Until you have a clear vision of what you want your legacy to be, it will be tough to built it.
- Create Winning Habits- Great leaders have “non-negotiables” that they practice on a daily basis. Habits that enhance and support their value system. Drive your personal leadership vision into your life, business, and family by creating habits that support what’s most important.
- Connection- All great leaders influence lives through connection. This means spending quality time developing relationships at home, at work, in the community, and with yourself.
- Leave Your Comfort Zone– Research shows that in order to maximize performance we need a state of relative anxiety—a space where our stress levels are slightly higher than normal. This space is called “Optimal Anxiety,” and it’s just outside our comfort zone. Optimal anxiety is that place where your mental productivity and performance reach their peak
- Bring Value- Most successful people I know don’t think about being successful at all. They think about being of value. They know that when you bring value to a business, relationship, and community you enhance abundance and create reciprocity. (The more you give, the more you receive). The key is to convert value into behaviors that you can measure and manage. Values in action are the key to creating a legacy of leadership.
“Strive not be be a success, but rather to be of value”